If they had been armed I would never have reacted. Brazilian thief gets humiliated by his victim.
And the nonmember spouse may just put pressure on the member spouse to spend more time with them.
Find someone who isn't part of a cult.
Do you and your girlfriend have any kind of plan for how you're going to manage your relationship while you're both in residency. As soon as she becomes dissatisfied, she will turn face and educate the OP about just how wrong it would be for her to stay with him.
All I can do is have Faith in Him.
When we were dating he made it very clear to me that he had no desire to come back to church. Nevertheless, I rarely have any trouble with setting some time aside to stay in touch with family, friends, and any woman I might be dating, as well.